My Aunt Mitsu: Lessons from Her Life & Death

This afternoon I returned from my Aunt Mitsu's funeral in south New Jersey.  I've been gone since Friday.  The funeral was held on Saturday, and the Sunday evening service at her church was dedicated to her, as well.  I didn't know her well; mainly from the perspective of a distant nephew.  So it was a blessing to … More My Aunt Mitsu: Lessons from Her Life & Death

“To Die Is Gain”

For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain.  — The Apostle Paul, 1st century A.D. Who says this kind of thing?  I mean, what would possess a human being to write such an off-the-wall statement (and to write it honestly)?  And how in the world did it ever become normal, even cliche?  Sometimes … More “To Die Is Gain”

Parental Involvement in Marriage (Part 2): The Divine Model

I'm a bit surprised that no one has yet responded to my previous post, because (1) the issue is very relevant, (2) the subject is highly controversial, and (3) I overstated my point in the last sentence.  This was the last sentence: "It is time for us to re-examine the relationship between God and His … More Parental Involvement in Marriage (Part 2): The Divine Model

Raw Conversations

There are conversations, and then there are conversations.  I just had a conversation.  No holds barred, judgment-day honesty, heavenly likemindedness.  One of those conversations with no trace of self-consciousness, no thought of self-preservation, no center but Christ.  It wasn’t scholarly or academic.  It wasn’t guarded.  It was raw.  And it’s funny and sad to me that … More Raw Conversations

Towards Good Habits: A Meditation on Learning to Floss

A few years ago, my dentist discovered my first two cavities.  They’re very small, and they’re symmetrical — they’re located in the exact same tooth in opposite sides of my mouth.  I tend towards perfectionism (in things of my choosing — that’s how perfectionism works), so I had been faithful to brush my teeth throughout my … More Towards Good Habits: A Meditation on Learning to Floss

A Downward Spiral: The Deadly Blend of Body-Image and Lust

American culture has become a mixing bowl for two ingredients that are devastating when combined together.  And the church—especially my generation—has not escaped the devastation. Most men have turned women into objects of lust who only serve to satisfy sinful desires.  And most women have bought the lie, doing their best to become the most … More A Downward Spiral: The Deadly Blend of Body-Image and Lust

My Hebrews 11

I love Hebrews chapter 11.  It’s sandwiched between the end of chapter 10 and the beginning of chapter 12, both of which speak of endurance.  This means that faith (11) is the meat in the sandwich of endurance (10 and 12).  To use another metaphor, the writer is saying that faith is the fuel that … More My Hebrews 11